Dearest readers,
Once again, I've demonstrated my stunning ability to completely neglect the blog. Much has happened in the eons since my last post. So:
My parents and sister came to visit over the holidays, and we had a wonderful time. They landed first thing on Christmas morning, and I whisked them straight to Popenguine, a lovely little beach community south of Dakar. We rented an impressively spacious house for impressively little money and spent a few days just hanging out as the four of us, for the first time in a very long time. After we all were more rested, we took off for Thies for two nights, and went to visit my training village / homestay during the full day we had in Thies. They were wonderfully warm and welcoming, and we sat around chatting well into the afternoon. I'd given my parents Senegalese names for the trip (Dad: Mbaye Ndiaye, Mom: Yande Diouf), but had remained at a loss concerning my sister. I ran off a list of choices, but she too was at a loss, so finally I had the idea just to ask my host family to name her. Thus, she came to be called Sohna Ndiaye.
From there we made our way down to Kaolack, for one night, before continuing on to Popenguine to celebrate the New Year with my friend David, his girlfriend Margaret, and his family. My sitemate and friend Morgan also joined us, with a visiting friend of hers from the States. It was a merry party, and the next morning we left for Passy, where the weekly market was in full swing. My counterpart met us there, and we took a charette (horse drawn cart) out to my village. We arrived in the midst of a party, which had been going on for some time in anticipation of our arrival, and we were seated at the inner edge of a drum circle as various people danced. My parents were dragged out to the dance 'sand', and made an excellent showing. After some speeches by all parties involved, we finally were allowed to retreat to my hut for some rest and chaotic unpacking.
By the way, trying to house 4 people for 4 days in a 3.2 x 3.2 m hut is something like one person trying to live out of an elevator: It's very cramped, difficult to lie down, and the doors keep opening and closing when you don't want them to, frequently admitting strangers who are just curious about just what's going on in there, anyway. Add to that various insects, arachnids, rodents, and the occasional bat, and you've got a very crowded living environment. A little stressful. My family, however, took it like champs, and we had a pleasant, if fatiguing time of it. We had to visit a lot of the village, both as a courtesy and informatively, which wore us all out. By the end of the stay I was having problems keeping the Sereer and English untangled, and occasionally would speak Sereer to my family or English to the village.
Finally, we extricated ourselves and headed for Dakar, passing through Kaolack on the way. I would like to point out here that up to this point, no one from my family (nor I) had been sick. I think that's pretty impressive, no? Unfortunately, once we hit Dakar my mother and sister both came down with head colds. Alas, how are the mighty fallen.
My mother opted out of Thursday night's dinner out at a Lebanese place, but my father, sister and I ate well. And there was much rejoicing. (Not that my mother wasn't there, but that we were, and well filled). I love Lebanese food, and we ordered the full Mezze spread. Delicious. The next night, Friday, for our last family meal here on the continent, we went out to the French Cultural Center, which serves your basic international western spread, and serves it well. I had a tender steak cooked to perfection. And so it ended. The next morning we were up before the crack of dawn (somewhere around the lower back, I'd say) and off to the airport.
I couldn't think of a better Christmas present than having my family here with me, and I want to say thanks for coming. I know it was a daunting prospect, and not the most relaxing of 'vacations', but it meant the world to me.
I've got some news as well, but it'll have to wait 'til I'm not so typed out. Until then...